The other day an individual asked a very interesting question. “Nicole, why would you say people hate you?” I wondered, “Wow, I can’t believe he asked me that crazy question. Why would he ask me, I’m not a mind reader? At that moment, I had two options, ignore, or respond to the question! If you know me, then I don’t even have to tell you that I chose the latter! ~TICKLE~ “They Hated Jesus without a cause, and I’m his humble servant, so they will hate me without a cause as well, I responded! "
I have always wondered what actually goes on in the mind of a Hater:
- How does one justify the sick and twisted behavior?
- When a negative thought emerges, exactly what do they experience mentally and physically?
- How does one determine whom he or she will hate?
- What are the characteristics of a Hater?
- Lastly, Is there a Hater Resolution?
Well, the Urban Dictionary provides various levels, and Hater behaviors; one who exposes imaginary flaws, speaks badly with the attempt to knock someone DOWN a notch, completely DISMISS ANY positive traits or actions, MERELY paints a LESS than flattering picture by using words with negative connotations attached, pretends to act happy for other’s SUCCESSES, and than gossips. Anyone who hates on another person for GOOD reasons, and finds satisfaction in another’s MISFORTUNE. They create special links in groups, and fuel each other’s hatred by hating with like minds, all consumed with making others feel inferior or awful.
Physically, Hating may be a form of stress relief. They seem to experience a brief state of happiness, temporary high, or a state of euphoria. They take DELIGHT in hurting people to build one’s own ego. Most seem to become addicted to the state of euphoria. The Merriam Webster dictionary defines hate as, an intense hostility and disgust usually deriving from fear, anger, or sense of injury motivated by hostility. Wow, that’s strange! If one possesses feelings of fear, anger, or hostility, and hasn’t learned to deal with those emotions effectively. Most likely, that individual will transform into a Hater, because to remove oneself from a Hater’s mentality temporarily, one must find joy through feeding from the never-ending source of negativity! Now, I get it, they’re miserable people searching for JOY! When you think about it, there’s never a bad reason, to hate! People don’t hate on individuals who they feel are beneath them, oh no, they don’t even get a thought! In their minds, they’re non-existent! They must hate on someone who physically or materially possess something they lack. Someone they feel is superior, leaving them feeling inferior, in their distorted minds. Sadly, they do not realize that we’re all made equal.
They possess PhD’s in Hater Communications, and later establish lifelong careers within the various Hater’s departments. ~TICKLE~ I must admit, some are highly equipped, extremely successful, and should never be underestimated. On a good note, this leads me to conclude that happy, joyous, and content people do not hate. They don’t have a need too. This is probably why they uplift, shine, reflect positive energy, associate with like minds, and possesses something Haters aren’t privy too. Well, favor ain’t fair! Wow, if I reflect, I don’t think I have ever in my life, encountered a person in a state of awareness hate on someone. Now, that’s a revelation! Now, how does one justify the sick and twisted behavior? Well, their self-talk deceives them into believing that they have a justifiable cause, meaning they have a good reason. At other times, they hate in groups. You see, if they gather in groups, the negative energy escalates, and emerges into a Mighty Mighty force against their victims. Together they stand powerful, justified, and quite satisfied as they feed off each other like vicious sneaky snakes. The characteristics of a Hater could be classified as; insecure, lack confidence, drive, education, self-esteem, spirituality, morals & values, conscious, self-love, empathy, sympathy, positive inner light, and etc. They’re unconscious, unaware, uninformed, miserable, unhappy, always complaining, arguing, going through something, blaming someone else for their dubious behaviors, making excuses, and justifying why they’re living beneath their privilege. They are truly sad, and playing on the wrong team.
Now, how does a Hater transform? First, mind your own business! Stop using others to distract you from focusing on self, it takes a lot of energy to face and accept ones truth. Focus on developing intrapersonally and spiritually. Work on healing within, whatever’s going on is a personal problem that should be addressed and revealed. If the problem remains hidden or suppressed then you’ll inflict your wrath of evil on everyone around. You’ll become everyone’s downfall. Slowly, you’ll discover that you are losing friends, mates, associates, family members, and most of all your soul. Remember, you don’t really hate anyone but yourself, what you need to do is stop hating yourself without a cause!!!!!! At the end, it’s all about how you feel about yourself as a person. Intrapersonal development is the key to enlightenment. It’s time to rise up out of the dark and allow God to lead you into the light. Take responsibility, search within, and make a change. If not, you will discover, while hating on other’s you are not doing anything but hating on yourself, because you do not have a reason to hate. The people you continue to hate on will continue to press on successfully. Question, how long will you allow fear, anger, and rage to take control of your life? Love provides you with a greater experience. You are truly missing out! Love is the greatest of all things! Fear of change, acceptance and success is the enemy! Stop hating people without a cause, or for their good cause? The Devil is a Hater! Don’t hate congratulate! Shame on you! Now that you've been placed in a box, and defined , you can be overthrown and Mastered! You lost your power!
Authoress: Nicole McGill
